Claudia Angelucci
Consider this perspective from a Buddha tale: If a gift is offered and declined, to whom does the gift belong? Logically, the unaccepted gift would belong to the giver. Similarly, if a judgmental word is used and the recipient rejects it, to whom does the judgment truly belong?
In the "Wake Up and Leap Forward" podcast, influencer Robin Finch engages in a captivating interview with an unconventional guest – Failure. Who is Failure? By its own definition, it's a word, a tool, a device – simply put, one F word. While the saying goes 'sticks and stones can break my bones, but words will never hurt me,' Robin reflects on the reality that words can indeed inflict pain. We've all experienced the sting of hurtful words, just as Robin recalls feeling humiliated and angered by name-calling during school days.
Words act as lenses shaping our view of reality, but they aren't reality. They plant thoughts, influence beliefs, and guide actions. Failure advises Robin and the podcast audience to transform their relationship with words, treating it like a relationship with people or pets. Without this, words remain rigid. Establish a flexible connection to take control. Define your own meaning for a word not serving you well – make it a tool for you, not against you.
Failure delves into the concept of success, highlighting how individual perspectives and preferences mold outlooks. Opt to see things uniquely, recognizing that success is defined by your attitude and choices, not by others' opinions. Step out of the shadow cast by other people's words!
"An Interview with Failure" is a witty and concise guide that highlights the illusion of perfection. It urges readers to embrace fluidity, akin to water—setting realistic standards, nurturing curiosity, and adapting to life's ever-changing nature.
Authored by Sam Yankelevitch, an international conference speaker specializing in communication issues, the book skillfully delves into the etymology of the English word 'Failure.' Yankelevitch provides valuable insights into shaping personal narratives, urging readers to take control of their thoughts and redefine meanings to empower themselves in the face of challenging words.
"An Interview with Failure" is labeled as fiction but leans towards self-help, emphasizing semantics. While the podcast idea is good, its execution could be improved. The writing is engaging, and the book is well-edited. Overall, I'd rate it 4 out of 5 stars, and I'm eager to see Perfection as the next podcast guest.
